the keys to maintaining intimacy in a long distance relationship

We all  know the anxious feeling of missing someone and not being able to see them…or touch them, or smell them!

Modern technology has made the accessibility of everything easier, but that still doesn’t mean you won’t feel the strong desire to be with your partner and to hold them in your arms.

How do you cope with that desire and not let it consume your relationship with insecurities?

The first step is to prioritize communication. Communication is the lifeline of any relationship, and it becomes even more crucial in a long-distance one. Make a conscious effort to establish regular and meaningful communication with your partner. Set aside dedicated time for phone calls, video chats, or even handwritten letters to express your love and keep the connection alive.

Secondly, plan visits and create anticipation. Having a future plan to see each other can create excitement and anticipation in your relationship. Coordinate your schedules and plan regular visits, whether they are short weekends or longer vacations.

Thirdly, you need to keep the romance alive. Surprise your partner with thoughtful gestures like sending gifts, love letters, or planning virtual date nights. Engage in activities together, such as watching a movie simultaneously or cooking the same meal while video chatting. These shared experiences can foster a sense of togetherness and keep the romance alive.

And lastly, continually work on cultivating trust with your partner. Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship, and it becomes even more essential in a long-distance scenario. 

Foster trust by being honest, transparent, and reliable in your communication. Avoid unnecessary jealousy by practicing open and non-judgmental conversations about your concerns and insecurities. Building trust will allow your connection to thrive, despite the distance.

Remember, maintaining intimacy in a long-distance relationship requires effort, commitment, and understanding from both partners. This is not a one-(wo)man show.